Jul 26

Keep Your Goals to Yourself

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This is fascinating!
Derek Sivers, presenting at TED has an idea worth speaking about.

It’s all about keeping your goals to yourself.

We’ve all done it and been told by hundreds of guru’s to declare our goals to our friends and get “leverage” on ourselves. Meanwhile this seemingly powerful idea, is preventing you from achieving your goals.

Yes, the problem is, you get the accolades before you’ve actually accomplished the goal and this kills your motivation.

Now imagine how you feel when secretly you know that impressing others with a goal completed is waiting for you in the near future.

How motivated are you?

Very.

See the video below with Derek Sivers.

Now about the only exception I can think of at this time, is this:

You have to tell some people your goals, like your associates and those who have a stake in it. Just don’t tell those people you want to impress. Therein lies your motivation.

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As founder and Head Coach at The Lifestyle Coaching Center, John Allen (JAM) helps particularly goal-oriented people live the lifestyle that promotes sustained health and success. As one of the leading authorities in PerformanceLifestyle training and coaching, John Allen has developed an online based education and training network designed to teach people the mindset and skill set needed to live in balance with vibrant health and peace of mind while achieving even their most ambitious goals.

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