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Lifestyle Training and Coaching is Not Just About Health, It’s About “Success”… Part One
Written by John Allen Mollenhauer "JAM" on September 26, 2007 – 9:48 pmWhen "most people" think of changing their lifestyle, they think about improving their health. They have focused so hard and long on success, it’s likely they’ve neglected their health in the process and they are forced to change. This is a common occurrence. I did this in 1990’s and once again, in early 2000, before I understood the full breadth and depth of Performance Lifestyle.
It’s not that people don’t value their health, it’s just that they have don’t understand the role lifestyle plays in their success. Your lifestyle is how you achieve your goals. It’s not a lot of fun experience when you’re living overwhelmed, exhausted and overweight, it makes life a graceless experience and achieving your goals hard.
But so many people live this way, we almost don’t think much of it. Almost as if, it was inevitable. We also don’t think twice about falling for the so-called solutions to the problem, weight loss, diet and exercise programs, many of which can really be "traps" in altruistic disguises.
First, why do most people get overwhelmed, exhausted, and overweight?
It’s because most of us achieve our goals in unhealthy ways. We don’t manage our energy well and this leads to all kinds of poor lifestyle decisions in a market that is clearly "duping us for dollars." If you achieve your goals in a way that leaves you overwhelmed, exhausted and overweight, with health complications, you’re not doing so successfully.
Yes, I know the pace of life, I’m faced with it as well, but that’s life and we have to adapt. When you’re put in a position to perform at higher levels you need a lifestyle that reinforces your health and success, or IT WILL ware you down. As the pace of life speeds up, how you live has to change.
Change to what… an athletically mindet Performance Lifestyle, you don’t have to be into sport or fitness to experience the benefits.
Go here for part two
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Improve the Effectiveness of Any Weight Loss or Training Program
Written by John Allen Mollenhauer "JAM" on September 18, 2007 – 9:48 pmThere are three types of people who benefit greatly by Performance Lifestyle Training.
- That person, who has been living on a downward trend (overwhelm, exhaustion and overweight) for far too long and wants to learn how to turn it around for good.
- The person, who is trying to lose weight, may be on a weight loss program and looking to burn fat, who wants to reinforce and "ensure" their success.
- The person, who is already looking, feeling and performing well, but wants even better results, greater mastery and the confidence that comes with it to achieve bigger goals.
Note: If you are training for competitions, sporting events etc, Performance Lifestyle Training will serve you well, but events like that also require more regimented training and conditioning protocols. Sports specific training is outside the scope of the Performance Lifestyle Training.
I talk a lot about losing the need to lose weight and I beat up on weight loss programs often simply because so many of them keep you stuck chasing your tail with your focus in the wrong areas, but the truth is there is a time when focusing on weight loss is important and you want to learn how to do so in a healthy, sustainable way.
The people who know how to do that, are the people whom I see as true experts.
So in the next Performance Lifestyle Training, I’m going to include breakout sessions with pro’s like Kevin Gianni, Scott Tousignant, Rob Poulos, and Scott Colby… not only do these guys know how to live awesome, promote unstoppable fat loss, rev up your fat burning furnace, and give your body a great makeover, they know how to do it right.
I look forward to introducing you to them, if you don’t know them. Together we are launching the Lifestyle Revolution.
Performance Lifestyle Training details coming next week. Remember it will be limited to only 50 People, so don’t delay once we release details.
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Are you living to “be healthy” or Living Healthy “to Live” on purpose
Written by John Allen Mollenhauer "JAM" on September 13, 2007 – 9:23 amYou know I have to say that this mindset shift was the best things that every happened to me.
For some time, I was living to be healthy and it cost me a great deal of success. I was all wrapped up in food and fitness and missed the most important element of both health and success, which is managing your energy to look, feel and perform better, and achieve your real goals. It wasn’t until I made this distinction in my mind that I was able to revolutionize my lifestyle and really focus on success.
The distinction between living to be healthy (how I was thinking when I was exhausted and overweight) and living healthy "to live" on purpose is powerful. What is so powerful about the difference between these too ideas is that in both cases your value for healthy living is in place, but ironically, when you’re not focused on being healthy, and you decide to live healthy to live your purpose and achieve the bigger goals you have in life, you will live healthier than ever before and it will go way beyond food and fitness.
It’s a phenomenon, and it’s true. And I’m suggesting that it’s going to work for you too. It’s the reason why the entire Performance Lifestyle idea even exists so that you can achieve your goals powered by the healthiest, best performing, most successfully energized and productive body you can imagine.
"Just after I met you, I found my event. It’s an event “bigger than my waist size” and I started lifting with a new vision and intensity that I haven’t done for 20 years. I am eating to live instead of living to eat.
“Every great performer is always training for their next event.” Wow. That was powerful John. I wished there was a way to convey to you how grateful I am that I had that 1 minute opportunity to line up knee to knee with JAM. There are no strings attached to this expression John. I have just not stopped thinking about it since Toronto… and I thought is was time you knew the impact you had on my life… in less than one minute.
I feel I owe you. I really do. One day, I hope to return the gift of clarity.
Looking Forward," Joseph Stith Executive Director of Learning Innovation ENGAGE THOUGHTWARE LLC
Doesn’t it sound strange to be trying to achieve your goals in an overwhelmed and exhausted body, maybe overweight? Of course it does. Performance requires that you maintain yourself in top condition, just like athletes.
It takes just as much energy, endurance, and stamina to be a super mom, a parent, a business owner, heck a student these days as it does to be an athlete. We are all athletes.
Sports athletes just have a stronger purpose than most people do, they always have an event to prepare for and target, big goals that they are striving for and more. That’s why they live Performance Lifestyle’s, the healthiest and most successful lifestyles in the world and here’s the big irony -
They don’t wake up and "live healthy" at all! They just do what works, and I can tell you, mismanaging your energy, eating poorly, being inactive, living with a fuzzy purpose and unclear goals, not to mention making goals out of things that aren’t even real goals, that end up being distractions from your real purpose in life does not work.
Over the next two weeks I’ve got a series of events planned with some top experts in Performance Lifestyle, who are also helping to revolutionize the way we think and live today.
- Tonight September 13, I’m talking with Rob Poulos of Zero to Hero Fitness, a warrior for better lifestyle.
- Tuesday, September 18th I’m talking with Scott Colby of SC Fitness and My Ultimate Fitness Mindset
- And on September 19th, I’ll be talking with Dr Brad Swift, Author of Life on Purpose -Brad Swift, the author of Life On Purpose: Six Passages to an Inspired Life
Performance lifestyle is not only about transforming your lifestyle for better results in your body, life and business; it is to live our lives on purpose. That’s why lifestyle training and coaching is so valuable, because it’s about your success.
Keep your calendars open for one night per week starting the end of September!
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Hmmm, energy or weight issue?
Written by John Allen Mollenhauer "JAM" on September 6, 2007 – 10:44 pmHave you ever considered the role your energy is playing in your weight, your health and success? When I ask that question most people say, they have low energy because they are overweight when it’s the other way around.
How they manage their energy in the process of achieving their goals, is causing them to drive themselves into the ground, and the more you downward trend energetically the more challenged your health and the harder your success.
Managing your energy is at the heart of changing your lifestyle, if you don’t know how, you will continue to be challenged. Here’s what a recent participant in the Performance Lifestyle Training has to say -
“When this Performance Lifestyle Course began, I understood very soon that energy-debt was my biggest issue - no doubt about the fact that "I was deep in debt". First, I learned what "manage your vital energy" was all about — my first lesson and it was a BIG ONE!! My body began to respond positively and it all FELT GOOD!! This was my first big breakthrough!!" This Age of Achievement non-stop, all-out, will drive you crazy if you let it ". The big secret is to learn how to prevent that.!! AH!! Welcome to the Performance Lifestyle Course!!” – Mary Davern
Get ready, there’s a Performance Lifestyle Training coming your way, end of September
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The New Training Center Bridges the Gap Between Health and Success.
Written by John Allen Mollenhauer "JAM" on August 23, 2007 – 12:54 pm< Go Back, Part 5 of 5
When we hear of a "training center", we think of a place to learn, perhaps on computers, or a place to workout. But I want to introduce to you do a new training center that exists in your minds eye.
For years, through personal experience, talking and observing others, I’ve noticed a pattern. It’s created by the pull we experience in our lives between maintaining our health and success. It’s the age-old dilemma. How do you do it?
We get pulled into so many worlds and their conflicting message that can leave us ungrounded and off center and this is disconcerting.
The success training world say’s "achieve your goals and you can eventually live the lifestyle of your dreams." When we hear this, we forget what lifestyle really means, and before you know it, we’re busting our asses incessantly with visions of BMW’s and homes on the Caribbean. It’s no wonder people drive themselves into the ground.
The healthy living world is telling us to live a healthy lifestyle but at times, it can seem unrealistic when we consider all that we have to do to maintain our success. The focus is on detoxification, reducing stress, eating less saturated fat, disease proofing ourselves, getting fit, getting enough sleep etc (all important) but for some reason it all seems to distract us from our focus on success.
Of course, when we’re then faced with the reality that achieving our goals in an unhealthy way has its limits, we hit the wall. Enter the next world we get pulled into… weight loss!
The weight loss world isn’t focused on your health or success in life, they define success by losing pounds and usually in manipulative ways. Dr Atkins was the poster card example of this. Never coming remotely close to solving the real problem for millions of people, millions of people took the bun off their burger to lose weight. They clogged their arteries, were constipated, and experiencing halitosis (bad breath)… and the rest is history. Atkins dies of a heart attack from his own diet and everyone else is left duped, thinking the problem was refined carbohydrate alone.
In Atkins defense, he made some great points, but he was just selling an impotent solution.
Now, we’re pulled in more than two directions and distracted to the left, thinking we’re overweight because we’re eating too many carbs alone and the only place left to turn is to turn to our head.
So we turn to the world of Peak Performance and psychology. Surely poor thinking is the cause of this. Like all the other worlds, there’s valuable information to learn here and it’s good. The message is, change your mind to change your life. You might even have to go to a psychiatrist to get your head straight from being pulled in so many directions. This camp is about getting your thinking right.
Ironically, we still haven’t solved the real problem; why we’re overwhelmed, exhausted and overweight! Surely, the answers are out there. You may already have the answers. All of these worlds, with the exception of the weight loss industry (quality players notwithstanding) which in my view is a grand misdirected project, offers great and needed information. But do you ever feel like something is missing? Like you’re floating in space and can’t bring it all together?
What’s missing is called the Training Center, otherwise known as a Performance Lifestyle. A Performance Lifestyle bridges that gap between health and success. It’s all about how you structure your life and how you live (your lifestyle) to achieve your goals in a healthy way, that’s successful.
It’s the hub; it’s the training center, which every other area of our life depends on. It’s not a weight loss program or a healthy lifestyle program alone, even though it is the healthiest lifestyle. It incorporates success training and is about how you achieve your goals in a healthy, balanced way so that your focus can stay on success, and you don’t compromise your health to begin with. Your training can be about improvement, not making up for what you’re losing every day on the downward trend so many people live on.
A Performance Lifestyle enables you to improve your thinking, your health, your body and your success, without all the conflict and for the right reasons.
If you’re not living a Performance Lifestyle right now, you’re likely living a depleting lifestyle and feeling a bit bounced around. It’s what happens in the Age of Achievement where the busier you get the less time you have to take care of yourself and you think the problem is the symtom.
I’m going to show you how to establish a Performance Lifestyle. There’s a formula and you need to learn it. I’ve enlisted the help of some of the top professionals in health and success training to help me do it.
So, stay tuned, turn up the volume on your speakers, in preparation for the next Performance Lifestyle Training, I’ve got some audio’s and interviews coming your way.
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Lifestyle Solutions are potent…
Written by John Allen Mollenhauer "JAM" on August 22, 2007 – 3:45 pm< Go Back Part 3 of 5
In my last post, I was talking about how Healthy High Achievers see things very differently. They aren’t bopping around buying impotent solutions to deal with symptoms (that are the direct result of their lifestyle) that don’t solve the problem.
They buy into "potent solutions" that are called lifestyle solutions. LIfestyle solutions solve problems, because they are sound. The don’t cause more problems.
As a result of lifestyle solutions, Health High Achievers get better results. They essentially, have more things going for them, than against them. Each aspect of their life and lifestyle is coordinated around the goals they seek to achieve and the experience the life they want.
Are all aspects of your lifestyle working for YOU and the achievement of your goals, including, what you eat and your activity levels?
The biggest problems of our time today, are low energy, fatigue, depression, overweight, and a myriad of other health problems associated, and ALL are the result of relentless demands on our energy and lack of support, in one form or another.
We’re being called upon to perform at ever high and higher levels and this is affecting both our health and our ability to succeed, sustainably.
To be able to perform and be both healthy and successful, we have to see things (lifestyle in particular) differently than they way we have in the past. If you’re going to perform better without killing yourself on the slow plan, you have to live better and the last time I checked that meant changing "improving" every aspect of your lifestyle, not only your diet.
The lifestyle that you have right now, that got you here (wherever you are) is not going to get you to where you want to go if improving your life situation is on your mind. Not only that, times have changed, the pace of life has sped up and we need better solutions to deal with the impact of it all.
We need several solutions over the course of our lifetime, maybe more or less than you’ve required to date. But how do you know if you’re buying into solutions that will actually solve the problems you are facing? To know the answer you need to understand the new "Training Center". I’ll be talking about that in part 5 of 5 in this series.
First, ask yourself. Do you want to solve the real problem…
Stay tuned for part 4 of 5.
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They don’t buy into impotent solutions…
Written by John Allen Mollenhauer "JAM" on August 16, 2007 – 10:27 am<Go Back Part 2 of 5
The people who live a Performance Lifestyle, see things very differently. and it’s why they’re called Healthy High Achievers (HHA’s). They live "healthy" lifestyles but healthy living alone doesn’t explain why they get the results they do.
I’m a big proponent of living a healthy lifestyle. I promote several healthy lifestyle’s such as www.NutrientRich.com, the new trend in eating and others, but sleep, a focus on diet and exercise alone, as foundational and beneficial as they are, are only part of the Healthy High Achievers formula for success.
By themselves, sleep, food and fitness training aren’t nearly as potent as they could be, in helping us face challenges and improve the quality of our lives, if they were seen as essential, but only components of a lifestyle focused on managing your personal energy, which promotes both health and success.
Healthy High Achievers work out yes, they do the stuff you see in the magazines (well, almost) depending on what magazine you’re reading. It’s what you’re not seeing (or learning) that makes the difference, that can only be explained in the context of the Performance Lifestyle they live.
Healthy High Achievers have a different mindset, a far more potent lifestyle and a more complete approach to acheiving their goals, than the average person has.
I’ve actually gotten tired of saying "live healthy", especially when I myself know that the reason why I get better results than most people is only partly because of how I sleep, eat and exercise. The Healthy High Achiever, does not wake up every day focused on health (unless they’ve lost it).
They wake up every day, like you I’m sure, focused on success… the things they’re up to in the world. In other words, they are focused on their goals. And their goal is not be healthy. They want be healthy, but their real goal is to be more successful.
Health is our birthright, it’s only part of the real goal!
So what bridges the gap between their health and success? A very potent solution, called Performance Lifestyle.
Stay tuned for Part 3 of 5
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Performance Lifestyle. What is it?
Written by John Allen Mollenhauer "JAM" on August 15, 2007 – 11:00 amPart 1 of 5
As you’ve learned, Performance Lifestyle is not an addiction to performing for the wrong reasons. So let’s begin talking about what Performance Lifestyle is.
For starters, you’ll here me talking about Performing "well" often… that’s a very different term.
After years of promoting health and fitness information, addressing the common problems we suffer, from low energy, to weight issues and poor health, and seeing people basically stay on the same merry go round, despite short-term success, I began to realize there was something missing…
…a central message that would explain why only a small segment of the population (3% or so) stays on top of their game, looking, feeling and performing "well" and achieving their goals successfully. Meanwhile, the larger majority of the population who may also be succeeding, financially etc, struggles with diet and weight issues, long-term health and well being issues and above all, low energy.
That central message is Performance Lifestyle.
You’d have to be living under a rock not to be seeing (or experiencing) all the buzz about "overwhelm", "multi tasking" and its impact on our performance, "how the pace of life has sped up" and our quality of life is deteriorating, how "obesity and disease rates are climbing", and last but certainly not least, how "we’re so exhausted, we don’t have enough energy left over for our sex lives…" -
Now that is a problem! 
The pace of life (if you’re all caught up) is kicking our asses and the way we’re responding to the stress is not making matters better. Yes …we’re not getting enough sleep, eating junk food, and physically inactive. But for starters, it’s the perfect environment for performance addiction to get worse and that’s the villian in this story.
The solutions have been, "Reduce stress, get more sleep, eat less and exercise more". Yeah, yeah, yeah… yeah. Doing these things on purpose may help you get healthy "er", but unless you arrive there in a normal and natural way, all of these things (which are outcomes), can be traps of epic proportions, guaranteed to keep you chasing your tail.
But you already know that don’t you? Maybe not.
People living Performance Lifestyle’s, whom we call "Healthy High Achievers", don’t buy into impotent solutions. They see things very differently.
Stay tuned for Part 2 of 5
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What does Performance Addiction have to do with your lifestyle?
Written by John Allen Mollenhauer "JAM" on August 12, 2007 – 12:45 pm… everything! Especially, when you consider that most people are living a lifestyle addicted to performance…
Are you? Be careful how quickly you answer this question.
In my last post, I mentioned that a Performance Lifestyle is how you live when you are not performance addicted.
Don’t confuse the two, ever.
When you have an addiction to performance at the core of how you live, you’ve got a big fat problem. Maybe literally, because it can drive you to over-everthing, including eating, drive your body in the ground and your mind a little crazy.
Yes, a little crazy.
"Much has been written about the burden of the 24/7 lifestyle. Phones follow us everywhere. We contantly check e-mails. Work pursues us from office, to home, to car, plane, and trane. It’s sometimes difficult to remember that none of this is being forced on us. We can turn off phones and computers. But many of us can’t turn off the self-voice that says, "You’re being irresponsible", or "You’re missing an opportunity". - Dr Arthur Ciaramicoli Performance Addiction.
There are many aspects of a Performance Lifestyle, what I also like to refer to as new the "training center" of our lives, or the "bridge between health, well being, and our idea of success"… but acknowledging this addiction if it exists, and dealing with it, is at the core.
You may say "I’m not performance addicted, I live a healthy lifestyle." If you are, great, but you can be living a "healthy" lifestyle and still be performance addicted. I have no vested interest in you being performance addicted, I just want you to start seeing the difference between a healthy lifestyle and a true performance lifestyle that is healthy. Performance addiction is not healthy in any way.
If you’re truly not performance addicted, then you’ll benefit from all aspects of Performance Lifestyle Training. But stay open to the idea, because I want you to get the full benefit. I didn’t know what performance addiction was, but I knew something was not right. Read this aspect of my story, and you’ll see what I’m talking about.
Just knowing about performance addiction will help you stay out of this pervasive "Age of Achievement" way of thinking that can seriously drain your life. I know this first hand.
Of course, there are many aspects of a Performance Lifestyle, including food, fitness, training, goals, vision etc… but the deeper stuff, performance addiction and the lifestyle skills we need to stay out of it are not being talked about, until now. This is the stuff that’s missing, not to mention the need to correct our faulty models of food and fitness. There is so much more, plus, it’s the way you relate the idea’s you know and learn in the context of a Performance Lifestyle, that makes the difference.
I was on the phone with Dr Ciaramicoli earlier today. He’s a new member of the Performance Lifestyle Health and Science Advisory Team. We were talking about how there are people with virtual Ph.D’s on nutrition, fitness, etc, but they are still living physicallly, mentally, emotionally and or spiritually on a downward trend. Energetically spent!
They are looking for solutions from the outside meanwhile their "inner lifestyle" is driving them crazy.
I have to tell you that when you get out that hell (performance addiction), and really get your life and lifestyle working for YOU, and the achievement of your goals, that’s when life really get’s better. Whether or not you’re performance addicted, goes a long way in determining how you live and relate to others.
It’s fascinating!
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Performance Lifestyle: The Missing Link
Written by John Allen Mollenhauer "JAM" on July 22, 2007 – 10:38 amWhat gives the Performance Lifestyle its unity and power? It’s about achieving your goals, successfully. It’s what we’re all driven to do.
The key is to expand your idea of what "successfully" means. This is what Performance Lifestyle Training offers; an understanding of the "missing link" between where you are and your vision for where you want to be and how to get their sucessfully.
After working with thousands of people, it’s clear we need to learn how to achieve our goals in life and business without sacrificing our health and fitness. We’re going to do that together by learning the never-before-assembled lifestyle success skills and strategies of Healthy High Achievers. Including but not limited to, athletes and those whom we admire for how much they accomplish and achieve, while looking, feeling and performing incredibly well.
Performance Lifestyle training does not focus you on losing weight or even getting fit. These are two results, but not the primary focus when it comes to your lifestyle working for you and the acheivement of your goals.
Overweight and out of shape are symptoms of a lifestyle gone awry; that’s not working for you, that’s out of balance and off course. And if you think diet and exercise alone will solve the problem, you’ll come up short, just like millions of people are right now heroically eating less and exercising more to deal with symtoms of a problem they don’t understand.
The missing link between where you are and where you want to be is "your lifestyle". I know that may sound cliche, but it’s nonetheless effective. We have not been trained to understand what it means to have a successful lifestyle, which we need, to acheive our goals successfully. We have been trained, but our training has our thinking askew.
In the upcoming "Age of Achievement" Manifesto you’re going to learn about the missing link, your lifestyle, and a nuance about lifestyle that’s going to change your life, body, even your business for the better!
Too many people attempt to achieve their goals in ways that are unhealthy, and because they are unhealthy they are unable to achieve their goals. They simply can’t perform. And if they do, it comes at such a cost, they can’t recover. They pay with their life. Performance Lifestye changes this, focused on your health AND success.
We have gone to great lengths to bring the defacto lifestyle success skills and strategies together in the Performance Lifestyle Formula. Get ready to become a Healthy High Achiever and unleash the full potential of your lifestyle to look, feel and perform beter and achieve your goals successfully.
Yes, you will lose weight and look great, but trumping both of those, you will gain the energy you need, to succeed.
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